CNN:
CNN legal analyst Paul Callan called Friday's verdict "unprecedented," adding that it "sends a message to people across the rest of the country" about the potential consequences of unauthorized webcam use in an age of expanding social media.
“This reinforces that social media can cause great harm and that its misuse can be criminal,” Ms. Goldberg said.
The case has helped bring national attention to gay youth suicide and the use of the internet and social networking sites to bully young people.
This story has absolutely nothing to do with social media.
Yes, he posted about it on Twitter. But most of the people who found out about it heard it face-to-face. This happened in a dorm room, remember. Do you know how fast news travels in a dorm room? During the first month of freshman year?
What I'm really worried is that if we all believe that the theme of the tragedy is "privacy in the face of social media", we will miss all the things it's actually about. Focusing on Dharun's tweets makes him sound like the broadcaster, and everyone else like a passive audience. But remember there were several people in Molly's room to spy on Tyler. Many more heard about it later that night, and many more at breakfast the next morning. And, with a few exceptions, all of these people were also Tyler's neighbors. The lived literally down the hall from him. They could go talk to him any time they wanted. If you don't know where Tyler lives there are names on the doors.
Imagine for a moment you are Tyler. Which is more important to you: whether your roommate plays a dickish prank on you, or whether all of your neighbors, the people you see every day, implicitly support him in that dickish prank? How much would it mean to have just one person walk ten feet down the hall, knock on your door, and say, hey, man, that was pretty douchebaggy what Dharun did, are you feeling OK?
Sergio de Biasi, a Rutgers CS grad student (and one of the best TAs I've ever had), committed suicide a year after Tyler. He had this to say:
Seriously, the real problem is not some idiots doing idiotic stuff. I am reasonably sure that if the victims were convinced that the reaction of society around them would be of almost unanimous disapproval and horror towards the idiots and of support towards the victims, they would not suffer so greatly and not be so hopeless. The real problem is that when idiots do something like this to someone, the reaction of those around them should be something along the lines of “WHAT? Dude, you’re a creep and an idiot, and I don't want to have anything to do with you.” but instead for a million reasons it is not. It's not socially convenient to antagonize anyone. It doesn't really bring any profit to show support for someone who was been wronged. So people just go on and do business as usual.
In a way, it's almost inevitable that Dharun would be convicted of some serious crimes, because that lets us feel that the perpetrator has been identified, and that it is not us. I believe all of us have at some time or another been in the position of Tyler's neighbors, though perhaps no one died in the end. That's why this story makes us uncomfortable; it agitates our latent guilt. But we need to be a little more introspective. What really separates you from Dharun? Are you really a better person, or are you just more scared of exposing yourself as the ringleader?
Maybe we want to believe that this is about social media, so that we forget it all happened in one building, and that everyone who heard about it could have done something to help. "Social media" makes it sound distant, detached, one perpetrator and a bunch of innocent bystanders. It is none of those things.
Another aspect to this story that the media hasn't really picked up on is that had the events taken place in November or December or the spring semester this probably wouldn't have happened at all. There is something about the first month of freshman year where morality is elusive, and everyone goes along with the new culture. Maybe because you're in an unfamiliar environment, and you're trying to figure out what the new rules are, and the best you can do is imitate the people around you, who have no more clue than you do. When the shit hits the fan, and the fantasy ends, you suddenly realize "Oh wow, that was really mean". But until then it's almost impossible to tell.
The thing is, that, while the dorm room culture can be incredibly hurtful (as in this example), everyone imitates each other, and so the culture has an incredible internal consistency. So even if something is very wrong, it feels right. When the RA or the law comes in and says "that was really mean", it feels like an intrusion. "We have the rules figured out already! What are you bringing in these new ones for?"
I think the most important question that this story should raise for us is how we can avoided being sucked into this kind of situation. Because once you're there, it's so hard to know you're there. And sometimes someone dies as a result.